love is the drug

A message from Shallots to Shallots

What the world has taught was there was something to be expected when you love someone, when you smile to someone, when you give something, that they will return "the favor" to you and you will be pleased.

But when the return did not meet the expectation, someone did not smile back, someone did not appreciate what you have done, there was no -thank you-, that would create a hole inside and dissapointment.

Learn to love in a new way, that means the right way, the way love is supposed to be. Love is an ability to be able to give, to be able to receive, to be able to re-centered life not into self but into others. That's not utophia, but entophia, someone in this world has done it perfectly before. But that's the kind of love that will not hurt you back, that will not beat you up, that will not run you down the drain or consume you. That's the kind of love that you have to keep in mind whenever you spread it.

Love is not depend on whether the object is lovable or not. It is unconditional.